The Email to the Ex-wife

[BlackMagicRose]

Neciah,

I am emailing since Daniel got the offlines and is at school. We are only going to be able to take the girls overnight for maybe one night. I am starting a new job which is full-time and since he is working and going to school we aren't going to have anyone to watch them while we are at work. We are kind of in a predicament because since you filed the child support that they are taking, we have had to cut ourselves short, which means we don't have the time and money to take them for an extended period of time. As it stands we don't have money for gas or food. Also when we do have them overnight we need to be able to get ahold of you if necessary. From my understanding there have been a few instances where Daniel has not been able to get ahold of you. I hope you can find a job soon so you can get a cell phone to make it easier to get ahold of you if need be. But right now that is where that stands. I am sorry if this doesn't meet with your standards but we have to be able to make the money for your child support as well as paying our bills. Sometimes sacrifices are made and this is one of those cases where we are both working and he is going to school and trying to get things set up to where we can take them when we have stable jobs and school isn't an issue. About the best thing I can say is for you to get a job or go to school so you don't have to worry about your expenses. We have rent, car payments, car insurance, and various other bills that HAVE to be paid along with the child support and right now we have NOTHING left over for anything but working and schooling. And his schooling is especially important. You just cannot make a living if you don't get some sort of education or if you are only making minimum wage. Especially with two kids. Again if you want us to take them for a night that may be doable but an entire week isn't possible at this time due to our work schedules and his schooling schedule.

Kristin~

[BlackMagicRose]

Heh....it worked too. I guess if something needs to be taken care of in that department it should be me who does it since they just argue. So she is going to try and have the motion the state made taken out and see if we can just do a private contract between them. That way it allows him to see the girls more and actually be able to spend time with him before like she said they get "too cool" for their Dad.

[SummerStorm]

*L* its amazing what can be accomplished

[Lost in time]

it sure is eh?

[SummerStorm]

sounds good*hugs

[BlackMagicRose]

There was more but it seemed to help by me basically laying everything on the line and saying look this is what is going on and so on. She got agitated with the whole concern over this person she is seeing online that is from Saudi. But we found out more about that situation and were temporarily blocked on MySpace. Anyway, other than that I think things should be better since I just got fed up and stepped in. They just seem to get too flustered with one another and Daniel dances around stuff instead of just coming out and saying it. Me...I am just brutally blunt and I figure if you don't want to know then DON'T ask me because you will more than likely get the shaken and not stirred variety of response.

[SummerStorm]

that sounds kinda like pink spandex boy and myself*L*

[BlackMagicRose]

I think these two are worse.... [img]graemlins/whatever.gif[/img]

[BlackMagicRose]

We had the whole thing about Daniel running like he has a tampon up his ass discussion the other day. He wasn't too happy about that little statement she made. [img]confused.gif[/img]

[SummerStorm]

yikes i would imagine now